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How To Get My Ex Back? Here Are The Most Important Keys You Shouldn't Miss

After a breakup you may spend some time nursing a hard drink and a pint of Ben & Jerry's. After this painful period passes you are faced with two options: trying to get your ex back or simply letting him or her go.

For those of you who decide that you simply cannot live without your ex, here are six ways to get your ex back into your life pronto.

Give them space!

As counterproductive as it may seem, it is important to give your ex some space immediately following the breakup. This is because absence truly does make the heart grow fonder and you want to make sure they realize just how much they miss you before you start trying to force your way back into their life. Above all, neediness is unattractive, and you want to make sure you are the most attractive option on the table!

Dress to impress

Now that you are single again, you need to take off the sweats and get back out your sexy clothing. You want your ex to see that you were a prize persuading them that they were wrong to let you go! Plus, new clothing and feeling attractive will give you a sense of new found self-confidence which is an attractive trait to most people.

Flirt a little

Jealousy is one emotion that almost always will pull at your ex's heartstrings. Let them see or hear that you are playing the field and if they still care about you it will bother them enough to make them reevaluate why they left you in the first place!

Compliment them to mutual friends

While you may feel like berating your ex to your mutual friends, you want to keep every thought of your past relationship present. So bite your tongue and stay positive, this way the only things that get back to your ex are positive thoughts which will cause them to respect you.

Appear nonchalant

When the time comes when you are thrown together again, act nonchalant as if the breakup did not even cause you to break a sweat. This will drive them crazy as they will wonder how they could have meant so little to you. In turn, as they struggle to figure this new side of you out, their minds will be on how great your relationship was which may turn them back in your direction.

Champion their family

You will never get the chance to make a persuading argument about why you should still be together without sounding needy, but your ex's family members can talk all they want. Hence, if you get their family in your pocket you have a negotiator on the inside that can help push your ex back towards your direction.

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im on a diet but i just ate a whole pint of ben and jerry's americone dream... help?

i lost 12 pounds since last year(i was 142 now im 130and im 5'5")i wanna be 123 though...will this ice cream mess me up?i work out 5-6 times a week running and strength training...i've hit a plateau so i think thats why i went for the ice cream....im depressed:(

I know how you were feeling when you posted this question... depressed and guilty because you just ate that tub of yummy ice-cream, and feel that it just ruined all your hard work of running and resistance work. But don't worry, if you are working out as much as you say you are, then the calories you burnt off outweighs the calories you consumed through the ice-cream. Eating that much ice-cream should be enough to put you off ice-cream for a week(lol), and you have a whole week ahead of you to work out and feel a lot better than you do right now
Losing weight is always a struggle, because we like to come back to our favourite foods now and then, and sometimes we will binge on those foods, but as long as you are working out MORE than you are binging, the weight loss will still happen, just a little bit slower than you would like. Obviously, the more strict you are, the faster it's going to happen, but life is too short to cheat yourself of all the yummy things there are to eat, so treat yourself now and then, just learn to have a little restraint, and have just one bowl instead of a whole tub. lol
Hey, if it makes you feel any better, I had fried chicken and chips for lunch yesterday, then a whole pizza and garlic bread for dinner..!! Eww!! lol But I know I will be training hard at the gym tonight, then riding my bmx for around 3hrs tomorrow, so theres my pizza and chips gone right there. While I felt like s**t after the pizza, when I get back from riding tomorrow, I'll be feeling tip-top again. It's a total mind game.
Don't worry, just keep training and the results will come, and you'll eventually reach your goal, even with the little setbacks along the way, like Americone Dream